Letting people struggle

I know it sounds bad but its so true. You need to let people struggle so they can find their own power. If you dont you handicap them. An example is alcoholics. If you have someone you love who drinks, there is nothing you can do but love them. You cant change them and you cant make them stop drinking. You can let them struggle until they find their own willpower and desire to change. Its the best thing you can do for them.

I speak from personal experience.